What is an underlying question that gives form
to your work or interest in this field?
How do we achieve an increased awareness of our interconnectedness
so we can live in peace, understanding and respect for others?
What is your personal experience of
collective wisdom in groups?
As a psychotherapist, I saw the collective resonance
of group work. A group of people would begin as individuals and start
exploring what they had in common. They moved from "What's in this
for me?" to "What are you going through? How can I help you?"
and "What can I learn from this group?"
Over the years, I have seen these dynamics in any group
of thoughtful people who come together for discussion. Effective groups
give us learning, expand our views, help us to understand others. And
they inspire, comfort and heal us. The experience of "I am not
alone" both draws on and opens us to our collective consciousness.
What is it about the work in this field that excites
you and connects you to your own deepest self?
I am collecting stories that connect us, true stories
of unexpected intersections and amazing moments of synchronicity. Whatever
words we use to describe these events -- coincidence, fate, karma, chance
-- they lift us from our isolation and make us aware of the threads
that connect us. We know, deep in our hearts, that all is one. We fear,
in our heads, that it isn't true. How do we banish our doubts and accept
that these connections are there, just waiting for us if we will only
pay attention?
Please provide a brief storyline or snapshot of
what brought you to this work.
The experience of connecting with another has always
fascinated me. What resonates between two people to connect them as
colleagues, friends or lovers? What facets of those relationships make
them enduring or temporary? What allows people to work through conflict
and remain connected?
In the days following 9/11, we were connected in our
shock and grief. We hugged friends, talked to strangers and all had
the same focus. We slowed down and were more patient and considerate
of others. As we began to heal, that deep connection started to fray.
People returned to being busy and focusing on self. Awareness of our
interconnection slipped away again.
Why does a tragedy have to occur in order for us
to reach that level of connection? How can we achieve connectedness
in positive ways and sustain it? How different would the world be if
we were fully aware of our connection with every person on the planet?
How would you like to be available to others in
this field? What would be a meaningful connection? Are you available to
talk with others? What contribution might you be able to make?
Through my web site - www.connectingstories.com
- I am collecting true stories that connect us ... unexpected intersections
and moments of synchronicity. Please, tell me your story. I would be
happy to hear from anyone who has an interest in this subject.
